dragobete

dragobete is the romanian equivalent of valentine’s day. it is celebrated on the 24th of february in the wallachian planes (including bucharest), but in some other regions they celebrate it on the 28/29th of february.

on dragobete, girls and boys dressed in holiday suits usually meet in front of the church and go searching for spring flowers. then, they sit and talk around the fires lit on the hills in the village. at noon, the girls go back to the village running, each followed by the boy who fell in love with her. if the boy catches the girl he chose, and if the girl likes him, they will kiss in front of everybody. this kiss signals their engagement for one year, and dragobete is an opportunity to show an attachment in front of the community. the traditional saying is that dragobetele kisses the girls (dragobetele saruta fetele in romanian).

dragobete traditions vary from region to region. there are a number of dragobete customs in rural areas, many of which are not kept up by modern romanians. the tradition also says that those who take part in dragobete customs are supposed to be protected from illness, for the rest of the year. region to region, even the date of the holidays varies, on the wallachian plains, including bucharest, it is celebrated on february 24, but in other areas, on 28 and 29 the same month.

in some areas of romania, married women have to wash their faces with snow so that spring finds them joyful and healthy.
person 1: i’m so excited for dragobete!
person 2: yeah me too!