loneliness

you too, huh?
no examples needed.
the feeling of despair and isolation suffered when you move to another location, have no friends, live alone far from any past family or friends. the feeling of constant pain and self personality criticism due to your situation and social inability to change your situation
loneliness is doing thinks which youve never done while not lonley and feel embarr-ssed doing eg. getting drunk and clubbing while lonely, eating in resturants alone and lonely, binging
you know it becomes really bad when you start posting definitions of it on a website in hopes of someone reading it. i can only recommend two things. find some new friends. or find none at all, and eventually you’ll get used to it. i’ve tried both, and i can’t really say which one is better than the other.
music recommendations: aimee mann, alice in chains, dishwalla, pink floyd (pulse). get a job. smoke weed. drink. smoke cigarettes. if you’re depending on something else other than a lost love or friends, you won’t need them as much. but there always be a little but of pain…
loneliness is not the same as being alone. many people have times when they are alone through circ-mstances or choice. being alone can be experienced as positive, pleasurable, and emotionally refreshing if it is under the individual’s control. solitude is the state of being alone and secluded from other people, and often implies having made a conscious choice to be alone. loneliness is unwanted solitude. loneliness does not require being alone and is experienced even in crowded places. it can be described as the absence of identification, understanding or comp-ssion. loneliness can be described as a feeling of isolation from other individuals, regardless of whether one is physically isolated from others or not.
i know what it feels like to feel lonely despite being with and around people. i used to respect solitude but now i experience loneliness, as a sense of emptiness prevails. to feel like you don’t fit in is difficult for anyone but i have found the following quote more of a daily mantra which helps me recognize and embrace inner strength, regardless of the situation, be it related to loneliness or other negative/positive life events. i hope it can help others who experience a similar dance with loneliness:

“when you close your doors, and make darkness within, remember never to say that you are alone, for you are not alone; nay, g-d is within, and your genius is within. and what need have they of light to see what you are doing?”
epictetus

the medication for the hurt -ssociated with loneliness is the recognition that we have internal strengths which act as our friends and companions for life, along with the people closest and most loved by us. this is something we slowly learn to seek throughout the course of our lives.
loneliness is when a dude can’t get babes.

it usually leads to death.

loneliness -> depression -> suicide -> death.
help mike overcome his loneliness. he’s going to die from it sometime in his 30’s. 🙁
being alone isn’t loneliness. loneliness is being alone when you desire otherwise.
solitude is the wanted withdrawal of oneself. loneliness is the unwanted withdrawal of others.
loneliness occurs when you feel as if n-body gives a cr-p about what you want. there’s n-body to turn to or ask for help, you only have yourself.
loneliness can make even the happiest of things not seem so great. it really takes most of the enjoyment out of life.

one thing that helps with loneliness is to find a hobby you like and stick with it. enjoy yourself and have fun while doing it. and if you do it in a club or a group, you might find some nice people who actually give a cr-p to be friends with.

also, don’t give up on life. suicide is not the answer. if you’re still lonely, then keep trying to find help. something good might come your way, and death will only take away that chance.

if you keep trying and don’t give up, you can surely defeat loneliness.