madonna-whore complex

a man with a madonna-wh-r- complex is a man who will sleep with and l-st for a s-xual and beautiful woman but he will never respect her as “wife” material and he will never marry her. in his eyes, she is tainted, impure, unworthy of the status of wife—yet he may possess p-ssionate and contradictory feelings for her. he may even be in love with her but will never allow himself to be with her in any real sense.
he will look for a “good girl” to marry—usually a woman who is cold s-xually but, for example, is good at “wifely” domestic things: cooking, cleaning, homemaking in general, etc. a proper, pure “madonna” type woman who will bear his children.
tony soprano all the way.
the seemingly conflicting desires that some (but certainly not all) men have for a woman who is experienced in the bedroom and unashamed of showing s-xual prowess (“wh-r-“), but at the same time a woman who is wholesome, clean and nuturing (“madonna”), particularly enough to not be branded a “sl-t”.

this concept is due to having a large population of s-xually frustrated people (both men and women) who were raised to believe that s-xual activity or just being s-xy is a dirty and shameful act, and a society where both men and women have been led to believe that women have to either be complete prudes or totally promiscuous.
“d-ck is an ex-quarterback with a madonna-wh-r- complex. jane is an equally confused prude who needs to drink a quart of whisky to release her s-xual inhibitions guiltlessly. they were made for each other.”
the tendency for men to not be able to integrate the “dualisms” of women. though each and every female is in fact fully capable of both, it appears man’s greatest challenge is to resolve them both in the same woman, thus these two aspects of the female must be relegated into two very separate and distinct categories–one or the other, black or white, madonna or wh-r-. it’s a shame men can’t just accept that both are available to them in the same woman.
she’s a madonna, and a wh-r-. this introduces a complex dilemma. madonna-wh-r- complex.
is when someone is unable to be s-xually aroused in a s-xual relationship; either because they revere a woman as a s-xual figure, and/or they desire girls who are s-xually promiscuous as form of punishment for their ways.
jackie’s boyfriend won’t give her the d, he’s got that “madonna wh-r- complex”
men cl-ssify all women into one of only two categories: either evil s-xual temptress, or good and pure saint; a woman has to be one or the other.
mortimer believed that only bad girls enjoyed s-x, so he felt free to despise them.
madonna-wh-r- is when a guy treats his wife or girlfriend gently s-xually, always treating her with respect, but the woman on the side he treats to aggresive angry s-x, performing acts on her that he thinks would disrespect the woman he loves.
italians think there wives, sisters, and mothers are all madonna’s or virgins.
that is not the case.
a shallow “man” who with an unnerving amount of mommy complexes (because he was breast fed until he was 9!) finds a s-xually healthy,independent,intelligent and beautiful female and runs like the sorry -ss b-tch that he is.women who posess beauty, brains and also lack the typical guilt complex about s-x terrifies weak men.will be continued…
see also matt sable….a sad,sad little man dog paddling in the big boy’s pool