Casual dating is becoming so popular that some younger people don’t even want to think about serious relationships. And why would they? Why would they give up sleeping with new people to be in a relationship?

And it’s not like casual dating is just sex, hence the term casual relationships.

What is a Casual Relationship?

A serious relationship is one in which both sides want to build their future together. Of course, that doesn’t always work out, but what matters is the intention. Kind of. Yet let those seeking relationships think about that. They have more to worry about than those looking for casual dates.

That’s one of the reasons why so many people avoid real relationships.

Today, everything is uncertain. Those who don’t want to plan ahead but still want to have fun start something casual. But now… It’s important to mention that there are 2 types of causal relationships – friends with benefits and hookups.

Friends with benefits are 2 people who like spending time together and having sex, but don’t want to bear the burden of building a serious relationship. Hookups are all about sex. Look at them like mini casual relationships, one-night stands, passionate nights under the sheets…

To find a friend with benefits, it’s usually best to check with some of your friends. But to find hookups, it’s better to look online.

Tips For Successful Casual Dating

Casual dating seems so good on paper. No real responsibilities, but all the fun. Yet, it’s not easy to get it working. We’ll share some tips to help everyone have more fun.

It’s Difficult to Find a Pearl in the Pacific

The main mistake we see singles seeking casual dates make is looking for partners in the wrong places. Everyone joins those famous generic sites. Then they get disappointed because the communities there are so big they can’t get any attention.

It’s been proven by millions of people that creating a profile on a legit niche site gives better results. Firstly, everyone with a profile on Instant Hook Ups is looking for sex without commitment, so there is no wasting time on chat.

You Can’t Catch a Swordfish in a Puddle

Another common mistake while seeking casual dates is joining niche sites without active users. Have you ever seen someone throw a fishing hook in a puddle? We hope not. It’s impossible to catch a fish in a puddle, especially if you’re picky.

We don’t encourage perfectionism in choosing partners. And those with a specific taste should join sites that aren’t too big but still have enough active members in their area.

Your Pants May Drop, But Keep Your Emotional Shield High

This one is dangerous. Most casual relationships die because of this one.

Keeping emotions and sex separate is easier said than done, especially if sex is good. That’s why it’s vital to talk about the boundaries. Some casual couples don’t kiss on the lips to avoid falling in love with each other. Others don’t have rules and feel like everything is great until their partners tell them they have another casual partner. Remember, that’s okay because there’s no exclusivity in casual dating. But that doesn’t mean people don’t feel hurt, even when they know they shouldn’t and don’t want it.

That’s the risk everyone should be aware of. And that may be one of the reasons why hookups are so popular. It’s impossible to fall in love with someone you see only once. Yes, Petrarca and guys like him did it, but do you want to end like them?

Even Tigers Need Doctors Sometimes

Staying healthy while dating more than one person can be tricky. You can trust yourself, but can you trust them? That’s why it’s so important to use protection, even if you’re the healthiest person with the best immune system ever.

Sex is fun until it earns you an itchy, burning, smelly memory.

Do regular checkups with the gynecologist/urologist and INSIST on using protection at all times. And don’t forget to eat healthy meals because if your body doesn’t get needed nutrients, not only that you’re at risk of getting STDs. But you also won’t perform as well in the bedroom.

If They Show You Theirs, Show Them Yours

Communication is the foundation of every relationship, casual included. So when someone reveals their emotions to you, return the favor. And if they say they’re falling in love, don’t use that to keep having sex even though you don’t have any feelings.

Remember, casual dating is good only if both sides know it’s casual. If one person thinks they’re building something serious, that’s manipulation. Don’t do that. Do people, not their emotions.