It’s surprising that it’s taken some guys to figure it out, but yes: older women are super sexy! Tired of dating younger girls and want to shoot your shot with a mature, attractive lady? You’re in the right place!

The Do’s and Don’ts of Dating a MILF

While knowing what to do is important, it’s just as important to know what not to do. Overall, these are common sense, yet many men ruin great opportunities simply by not thinking with the right head! Here are the main “Dos and Don’ts” of Dating a MILF!

Do

  • Compliment her appearance, especially her choice of clothing;
  • Be polite at all times;
  • Take a genuine interest in her life, from her personality to past life experiences;
  • Open up about yourself, your current situation, and your relationship goals;
  • Determine her sense of humor, her triggers, and her grey areas.

Don’t

  • Bring up the topic of sex right away;
  • Provide false information to make things go “easier”;
  • Change how you act to make her like you more;
  • Compare her to your younger ex-girlfriends;
  • Treat her like she’s an old lady.

How to Impress Her Online

The individual desired traits in a partner will vary from woman to woman, but generally speaking, you’ll need to have an amazing profile if you want to quickly connect with a woman online. Fortunately, creating a great profile on a MILF website is fairly easy and shouldn’t take you more than half an hour. You’ll first need to take some photos for your profile. It’s vital that you smile in these and avoid posting more than one “douchey” photo (think shirtless on a beach “douchey”).

Mature women tend to be detail-oriented, which means you’ll want to completely fill out your profile. Depending on the site, this could just be basic information such as your height and age or more personal information like your employment status and religion. By providing potential matches with more details, they’ll have more to work with when determining if they want to chat with you or not. This means that you can confidently assume that a MILF who sends you a message is genuinely interested in you. Skimping out on details will not only reduce the number of messages you receive but also can result in poorer matches, so take the time to do things right the first time!

The First Date

If you’ve played your cards right, your mature partner should be open to the idea of taking things offline and into the real world. This is great news, but the first date means there’s a lot of pressure on you to get things right. After all, first impressions are everything, so what’s a guy to do? Well, it’s simple: Be prepared! You should get your lady a small gift to give her after the date (assuming it goes well). Something nice that costs under $10 (such as flowers) will be perfect. For the date itself, make sure you’ve brushed up on both your manners and your appearance. You’ll also want to be prepared for some small talk, but mainly, getting to know each other. This date is your chance to really get to know each other, so if there are any key questions she hasn’t asked you yet, this is probably when she will. Beyond this, just have fun! Mature women are great at picking up on vibes, so if you don’t seem like you’re having a good time, then she’ll be able to tell. Relax, enjoy some conversation, and see where the night takes you: best of luck!