abuse by proxy
if all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, inst-tutions, neighbours, the media, teachers – in short, third parties – to do his bidding. he uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, har-ss, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. he controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. he employs the same mechanisms and devices. and he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done.
one form of control by proxy is to engineer situations in which abuse is inflicted upon another person. such carefully crafted scenarios of embarr-ssment and humiliation provoke social sanctions (condemnation, opprobrium, or even physical punishment) against the victim. society, or a social group become the instruments of the abuser.
– he keeps sending his friends over to ask for stuff he left behind after he had moved out!
– abuse by proxy, if you ask me!
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