Coin tosser

when a gay couple cannot decide who will be the “top” and who will be the “bottom” for the night, or in the relationship.

this was originally explored in the brokeback mountain scene where the roles were determined via a hearty wrestling match when they began exploring their newfound h-m-s-xuality.

coin t-ss-rs are commonly “new” h-m-s-xuals who are still discovering if they prefer giving or taking for the long run, or can simply be a couple who has similar tastes and the dominant role in the relationship has not been established.
“that bear couple look exactly the same, all burly and hairy, which one is the top or the bottom, or do you think they are coin t-ss-rs?”

“those twinks are both pretty girly, you think they are coin t-ss-rs?”

“did you hear that chuey and jesus decided they are gay and started dating? since they are new at -ss love they decided to be coin t-ss-rs till they figure out which position suits them”
a person who changes s-xual preferences and s-xual ident-ties alot. someone who will become attracted to same s-x gender at the flip of a switch, or “tossing of the coin”. someone who will randomly change their entire s-xual ident-ty without much thought (ie hetero to drag queen).
“oh no! donna, why is my boyfriend dave sucking bob’s d-ck?” “amy, didn’t you know he was a coin-t-ss-r when you met him? yesterday he was dressed in drag and kissing my mother.”
(a) a man who attempts to cover his h-m-s-xuality by acting macho, sporty, or beefy. (b) a sports player on the down-low
butch is such a coin-t-ss-r; he lifted weights for 3 hours, then f-cked mike in the -ss.