Domme

a female dominant in a bdsm relationship.

pr-nunciation varies; usually it is pr-nounced ‘dom’, but sometimes may be pr-nounced ‘dom-may’ to stress the difference between the female and male dom(inant).

‘domme’ usually refers to a non-professional female dominant.

a professional female dominant is usually referred to as a ‘dominatrix’, or a ‘pro-domme’, but may simply be called ‘domme’ by her close -ssociates or clients.
my domme flogged me for being cheeky to her friend
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female dominant in a bdsm relationship
(usually spelled as a proper noun, e.g. ‘domme’, as is it’s male counterpart, ‘dom’)
michael only addresses his mistress as ‘ma’am’; he calls other dommes by their given names.
female dominant in a bdsm relationship. see dom
gina is a domme, but she enjoys being the bottom once in a while.
in the bdsm / fetish world, it is a female dominant who professionally works with submissive clients.
also known as a “professional dominatrix.”

the term “domme” is often confused with “dominatrix”.

a “dominatrix” just is a female dominant who fulfills the dominant role in a personal relationship or perhaps a career.

it does not imply that she is a professional.
domme is a term used specifically for the professional variety, meaning she is paid or compensated for her services.

the terms domme, dom, domina, dominatrix, and dominant are -always- capitalized in proper bdsm grammar, btw.
— i used to be a college professor, but now i am a domme. the pay is better and i do what i do best for a career now!

— laura is controlling and dominant in her relationship with her boyfriend billy. she doesn’t want to quit working at the restaurant, so she’ll just be a dominatrix with him.

— every year dommes from across the country go to a bdsm event called domcon.