stone femme

a s-xual ident-ty held by femmes who do not touch the genitalia of their partner during intimate relations.

a stone femme usually partners with and is attracted to a
stone butch.

she is a stone femme, she would never disrespect her partner’s boundaries.
stone femme (stonefemme) is a term often used within lesbian communities.

to say someone is stone is to say that that person does not permit s-xual touch, esp. penetrative, upon their person. in other words, if a stone person is having partnered s-x they would be the pitching, not the catching, partner. (see stone butch)

in common usage, stone femme has two quite different definitions:

1) femme-who-is-stone
2) femme-of-a-stone-butch-.

the grammatical parallel structure of stone femme / stone butch would logically indicate that the femme, like the butch, is uninterested in receiving s-xual touch. thus, femme-who-is-stone.

-the other possible meaning, femme-of-a-stone-butch, simultaneously implies a denial of the possibility that a femme might be stone (by supplanting the parallel term with an identical term with an opposite meaning), and if read the right way, implies a type of relationship ownership, as in “mrs stonebutch”. this meaning is deprecated.
mary was the kind of aggressive stone femme who made all the non-stone butches want to fling their legs in the air for her, although many of the bolder women had hopeless and unspoken dreams of one day returning the favour.
a femme lesbian or feminine woman who does not allow or enjoy s-xual penetration; she may not even allow any touching of her genitalia whatsoever, even cl-toral stimulation. she generally prefers to “top,” or be the more active partner when having s-x.

“stone” can also be used to refer to butches who prefer to top and not be touched s-xually themselves.
that girl is a total stone femme; she will strap it on and give it to you good, but don’t even think about trying to touch her. she is strictly a top.
can define a “femme” identified woman who is s-xually untouchable.

stone can also mean “very”, as in “very feminine” and proud of it.

a woman who is partnered with or attracted to very masculine/butch women.
is leslie’s girlfriend a stone femme?