Toyfriend

toyfriends are more than f-ck buddies, but less than boyfriends. they care for each other, they can be very affectionate and intimate and socialise openly besides just having s-x, but both of them are free to see other people and discuss that openly with each other. there is no nuance of age or domination in the term toyfriend, as there is in toyboy.
my toyfriend simon called me the other day to tell me about some bad s-x he had after a date. i told him i’d make up for it on sunday after going with him to the cinema and that i had missed him.
a guy who really wants you who you keep around to give you rides & buy you stuff but you don’t legitimately put out to
jess is totally keeping dave around as a toyfriend, he drives her everywhere but there’s no way she’s letting him hit that
guys snapped up by girls who are in between guys. they are only being dated because of the girl’s complete insecurity. often, the guy has had a burning crush on the girl in question and is willing to let her repeatedly dump him and date him again in return for physical affection.
“didn’t you say yesterday that john doesn’t believe in hygiene? i thought that was why you weren’t going out with him…”

“it was.”

“but now you’re dating him??”

“relax. he’s just a toyfriend. in fact, i don’t even plan to let him get to first base.”
a boytoy that is cool enough to not only have s-x with but hang out with and be seen in public with. a toyfriend is not to be introduced to others as your boyfriend. this is a guy that if circ-mstances (married,attached,business travel, life goals, financial status, age difference, children) were different would be boyfriend material.
he’s more than a boytoy to me he is good enough to be a toyfriend.
a friend with s-xual benefits. sometimes it’s a boy on the side, sometimes it’s the stage right before you make him your boyfriend.
is he your boyfriend?

answer: no, we’re just messing around. he’s my toyfriend.