bumder

a cross between bender and b-mmer. as used in the tv show “the inbetweeners”.
me: your dad is b-mder.
a cross between the insults ‘b-mmer’ and ‘bender’. used by will in brittish comedy ‘the inbetweeners’.
neil’s dad is a b-mder.
the cross between a bender and a b-mer.
go play with your philippine boy friend you b-mder!
a cross of the words b-mmer and bender (both meaning h-m-s-xual) used by will in the comedy the inbetweeners
me: h, you’re such a b-mder!
h: yeah, i know.
derogatory term for a h-m-s-xual male, a cross between the terms ‘bender’ and ‘b-mmer.’ made popular by e4 comedy ‘the inbetweeners.’
1. (original context)
neil’s dad: neil! what the h-ll is going on?! oh! this place smells like a brewery, and not a nice one. jay, there’s always trouble when you’re around, but will i’m especially surprised at you. i’m so sorry, steve.
will: oh, p-ss off!
neil’s dad: what? don’t talk to me like that in my own house!
will: oh, i’m so sorry. my manners. p-ss off please!
neil’s dad: i’ve had enough of your lip.
will: oh you’d like my lip wouldn’t you… right round your bell end, if mr chippy doesn’t get there first! what’s he gonna knock up? a closet for you to hide in? you b-mder!

2. (everyday use)
“oi mate, what’s with the earring/pink shirt/george michael cd/(whatever)? you a b-mder or something?”
a mix between a bender and a b-mmer.
you b-mder.
a mixture of a b-mmer and a bender. the worst of all name calling
hey you know simon ? yeh he is a b-mder
what a b-mder simon is
simon is a b-mder
god simon you;re such a b-mder