second opawnion

the destructive/oppressive practice of — when wrongfully refusing a perfectly-reasonable request from someone of less physical/emotional/intellectual/financial means than you possess — consulting someone else whom you know will be a “yes man” to anything you say (i.e., “p-wn”) for a confirming/bolstering agreement, thereby invalidly giving the unfortunate favor/eas-m-nt-requester the false idea that “everyone else feels the same as i do”, and thus that he himself must be the one who’s being selfish/wimpy/unreasonable to expect something like that, even though both you and your “confederate” know fully well that **you yourself** are the one who’s in the wrong by your heartless refusal to allow for the asker’s less-than-optimum capabilities.
asking for a second op-wnion is actually a form of gaslighting, since it can cause the unfortunate mercy-seeker to doubt his own sanity in his actually-totally-valid belief that whatever he is requesting is logical/necessary. by your strongly expressing your lying -ssertion that his request is unreasonable/preposterous — and yet he himself can see no problem with whatever he is asking for, since he honestly feels the genuine and overwhelming need to have said eas-m-nt granted him due to his own infirmities/incapabilities — you may very likely cause him to invalidly think that he does not even know his own needs/self/body properly, which can lead to a permanent damage to his basic perception of reality and self-worth.